Not everyone who claims to be a victim is actually a victim.
Some people use the victim label as a license to bully and torment others.
Do not be taken in by someone who uses their pain as an excuse to behave terribly.
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I just feel like I'm dragging my friends down recently. I don't know if I have depression or what but once someone gets close I always end up making them sad. Probably cause I can't learn to shut my mouth. I'm still young and have growing to do but I just feel like I can't get close without hurting someone. It's gotten to the point where i sleep when I come home from school and stay up all night because I want to avoid people as much as possible. It's so unhealthy and it star... read more
f*** MY BOYFRIEND! Everything was good in our relationship for the first 4 months and then he got a console and got obsessed with gaming right? and he would ignore me to play his f***ing games. about 6 months into the relationship i got out of a toxic environment and he is there for me for a bit but then its right back to the games. i happen to be over when one of his whores on ps4 messages him and they call him my pet name! its my petname for him and i thought it was special... read more
He looks at me with adoration? but doesn't want to be more than friends because of our group of friends, he doesn't want to break that bond we all have, i get that, i really do, so please don't look at me like that anymore. Yes I've liked you but if you're unwilling, i get it, and i've come to accept it. And wow i didn't think you'd think of our friendship to be that shallow..... so please stop looking at me that way, it makes me uncomfortable. You were the one that didn't***... read more
So you're playing the victim right? Because Im the acting aggressor instead of Alex or your mom and stepdad. I am literally just filling in a role you need to fulfill your victim complex. Unfortunately I will keep going hungry and unhealthy while you remain spoiled by your family and boy toys.
I don't mind it. I embrace the hell your mom and you condemned me too. And honestly thank you, I wouldn't be this free to be the piece of sh** your mom and you think I am
Dear Emmi, I understand you better now. "A victim act is a form of passive aggression. It seeks to achieve gratification not by honest work or a contribution made out of one's experience or insight or love, but by the manipulation of others through silent (and not so silent) threat. The victim compels others to come to his rescue or to behave as he wishes by holding them hostage to the prospect of his own further illness/meltdown/mental dissolution, or simply by threatening t... read more
YOU ARE A f***ING b****! JUST SHUT THE f*** UP AND LET US LIVE OUR LIVES. I ALREADY CRITICIZE EVERY. SINGLE. g**d***. THING. I. DO, I DON'T NEED YOU TO TELL ME TOO! JUST BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU'RE AN a**h*** DOESN'T MEAN YOU SHOULDN
T SOLVE IT. BEST FRIENDS MY a**. EITHER CHANGE, OR GO DIE IN A f***ING HOLE
Social anxiety has kept me back so much in life. I should be experiencing the greatest years of my life, the time that I should be finding a partner, settling down, having a great social life. But instead of that I wound up pushing everyone close to me away. I'm so lonely and I feel like crying all the time. Leaving the house, going to work, talking to people is too much pressure. I can't take it. What am I doing wrong? Even if I don't purposely push people away, they never s... read more
What's even the point of staying sober. I worked my a** off for 4 months thinking I'd have something to show for it. Sure I'm generally a little happier but lately it's constant cravings and a bunch of awful depresssing sh** going on. My best friends dad is in the hospital again with stage 4 pancreatic cancer (she's 15 and so am I), my crack head dad is a lying piece of sh** making promises he doesn't keep, all of my honors and AP classes are ridiculously hard cause test seas... read more